i get it. i was excited, driven, purpose-filled, and then life happened. I got derailed by betrayal, intense dissappointment, the death of a family member, and more. I went into survival mode. i used to wake up excited and loving my life. but after we lost everything i had to take a 9-5 desk job to provide for our family. i couldn’t understand what happened. after the dust settled, i was left with the harsh reality that we had nothing. i made decisions based on my bad experiences and settled into a life i didn’t want. i hoped things would change but i didn’t do anything to change them. i felt like i released the reigns of my life… like i moved from the driver to the passenger seat. i was frustrated and irritated while struggling to make it through a normal day. i was out of shape, unmotivated, living paycheck to paycheck, and directionless. my wife could see it. my son could see it. the pain of my mediocre life sat in my gut like a giant weight suffocating me from the inside out.

too many men feel the way i did. they don’t know how to break out of it. it took a lot of prayer, reflection, self-assessment, healing, honest conversations, and a clear plan to snap out of the rut. the change i needed wasn’t going to be realized overnight but the plan was in place. i got on the grind and, saw a counselor, dropped 30 lbs, renegotiated my work contract for a significant raise, started my own business, founded 2 non-profits, and regained my life-vision. i developed tools and a plan to help other men break out of similar situations. those tools are the focus of the UNBREAKABLE Man Masterclass.